Don’t Want a Diamond? Here Are 4 Stones That Actually Hold Up (and 3 That Don’t)

Mohs rating: 10

Reminder: Diamonds come in many different forms beyond traditional white sparklers. Trend-forward? How about a moodysalt-and pepper diamond, or maybe a sepia-tonedrough-cutgem.Très distingué.

Get the look:Alexis Russell($4,395)

Mohs rating: 9.5

OK, so this increasingly popular option looks an awful lot like diamonds—but we felt it was worth mentioning them since they’resomuch cheaper. While they’re produced in a laboratory, these stones are actually a rare, naturally occurring compound called carborundum—and it’s nearly impossible to tell them from the real thing without a trained eye.

Get the look:Bihls(350美元)

Mohs rating: 9

Sapphires are easily the most classic diamond alternative. (Just askKate Middleton.) But PSA: They don’t have to be cobalt!Petal pink, coral and even white make chic and contemporary choices.

Get the look:Eidelprecious($4,200)

Mohs rating: 9

Haven’t you heard?玫瑰色的订婚的石头are having a moment. If you fancy yourself a true romantic, consider this durable crimson gemstone, perhaps in a haute Victorian-inspired floral design.

Get the look:Ken & Dana Design(from $2,350)

Mohs rating: 7.5

We know, we swoon for these regal green stones, too. But since they’re susceptible to scratches and discoloration, you’d be better off leaving them to your earrings or a special occasion cocktail ring.

Get the look:Capuccine(from $5,600)

Mohs rating: 7.5

This increasingly trendy stone is a strain of beryl: a mineral found in aquamarine. While we’re thoroughly obsessed with the peachy-pink color, it’s sadly a risky engagement ring choice, due to its moderate softness and susceptibility to damage.

Get the look: Lamore Design ($898)

Mohs rating: 7

These precious stones are dramatic and gorgeous. But they’re also susceptible to chipping, breaking and damage from heat or chemicals. Again, a better choice for jewels that don’t take such a beating.