The 30 Best Couples' Sex Toys to Spice Things Up in 2023

• What we like:silky material, 6 vibration settings
• What we don't like:toggle settings can be hard to manipulate
• Material:body-safe silicone
• Battery life: 1.5 hours

This matte green body-safe silicone ring fits over the penis, and has six speeds from a faint murmur to a strong pulse. It's meant to give pleasure to both partners, since the vibrating part stimulates the wearer and the partner. As one user writes: "My wife loves the many vibrations. Helps me maintain longer erections. Best yet, my wife loves the big Os." Oh, and it's waterproof and rechargeable.

• What we like:internal and external stimulation, afterglow setting
• What we don't like:tends toward gentle stimulations
• Material:soft-touch silicone
• Battery life:120 minutes

If you're someone who gets pleasure from both internal and external stimulation, this vibrator is for you. Use it in the bedroom with your partner to increase your climax, thank us later. Here's how it works: One end of the slender 6.9-inch vibrator has the controls, while the other has a rounded tip with an air stimulation center which can be held against your outside (clitoris) or insides (the G-spot). Twelve intensity levels of air stimulation plus three speeds of vibration mean there's a lot of potential for experimentation with this streamlined device. And bonus—by pressing the minus button after you climax, the vibrator ratchets down to its lowest hum, aka the "afterglow" setting. It's a late 2022 addition to the Womanizer brand lineup, but its innovation has already gotten couples' raves: "Ladies, buy this for yourself. You will not regret it," says one reviewer. "Gents, buy this and use it on your lady. You will not regret it."

• What we like: 80-inch length allows spread-eagled position, D-rings allow multiple configurations
• What we don't like: fits only double beds
• Material: latex-free velcro. faux fur
• Battery life: no batteries

BDSM is not for the faint of heart, but if it's you and your partner's cup of tea, these bed restraints will kick it up a notch. It has ankle and wrist cuffs and is inspired by theFifty Shades of Greybooks.

• What we like:hands-free, remote-controlled up to 39 feet
• What we don't like:sensation may be too subtle for some users
• Material:silicone
• Battery life:2 hours

这些珠子是远程控制和旋转and vibrate for the ultimate pleasure sensation. LELO claims these beads will offer a thrilling hands-free experience that "turns your whole body into a sensual dance floor," and we're not mad about it. Neither is this happy reviewer: "I bought this product for my wife about a month ago," the reviewer writes. "It’s well-built easy to use and great for couples' play. The vibrations are very strong and the remote are perfect for discreet play."

• What we like: optional LED light shows device pulses, 6 play modes
• What we don't like: Bluetooth connection can get lost under clothing
• Material: matte silicone
• Battery life: 3 hours

Have your partner download the app so the intensity and pattern of this toy can be controlled from their fingertips while you have a virtual date. It has three vibration levels and four vibrational patterns.

• What we like: easy-lock travel mode, 8 speeds
• What we don't like: targeted energy might be too pinpointed for some users
• Material: body-safe silicone and ABS plastic
• Battery life: up to 2 hours

"I am no stranger to high-end toys, but the Zumio X is an absolute game changer—solo and especially with a partner," writes one user, who describes having intensified orgasms with it. This slender device uses rotation instead of the vibration that most handheld toys offer, resulting in more pinpointed stimulation. A small rotating head massages massage the clitoris, with eight speeds to choose from.

• What we like: double-ended massager stimulates both users at once, stimulates nipples also
• What we don't like: shaft or arms not bendable
• Material: silicone
• Battery life: up to 2 hours

This cheerful pink Y-shaped silicone vibrator gets high marks for versatility since its ergonomic shape and multiple settings make it adaptable to practically any erogenous zone. As one user explains, "There are seven settings for the top two heads, and seven settings for the shaft, making 49 different possible combinations of vibrating pleasure. You are sure to find the right combination(s) for yourself and your partner."

• What we like: elegant design, 4 speeds and 2 modes
• What we don't like: skinny profile might not be thick enough for some users
• Material: stainless steel
• Battery life: 40 minutes

这个微小的便携式振动器有一个圆形的顶for exterior stimulation and a nearly 4-inch shaft for interior stimulation. It also has four speeds and two modes—but that’s not all. Meant to be worn as a necklace, you can easily slip it around your neck (and use it as a signal to let your partner knowexactlywhat time it is).

• What we like: puts exact pressure on the clitoris, 7 vibration patterns
• What we don't like: might be too subtle for some users
• Material: body-safe silicone
• Battery life: 120 minutes

Clip this on your partner during intercourse for some clitorial and G-spot pleasure that you can also feel. Totally waterproof, this is a great toy to keep in the shower or bath. As one reviewer puts it, “You know you want it. Just get it. You won’t regret it. EVERYONE needs this.”

• What we like: jeweled base, three sizes: small (3 x 1 inches), medium (3.3 x 1.3 inches), large (3.6 x 1.6 inches)
• What we don't like: silicone lubes aren't optimum for silicone toys
• Material: silicone
• Battery life: no batteries required

Anal play can be the third rail in relationships, but this sparkly set of plugs might help charm a person into exploring new frontiers. Plus, the three sizes included in this set means trying these out is less intimidating than a one-size-fits-all experience with a single plug.

• What we like: small size, quiet operation
• What we don't like: magnet might slip with a lot of movement
• Material: silicone
• Battery life: up to two hours

Sex educator Kiana Reeves says "discreet toys that can be worn underneath your clothing are on the rise." Case in point: the WeVibe Moxie remote- and app-controlled wearable clitoral panty vibrator. It's a 3.5-inch by 3-inch super skinny vibrator that fastens to your underwear via a super strong magnet, and a handheld remote that controls the speed and intensity of vibrations. And—this is the prestige, if you will—the panty vibrator can also be controlled via Bluetooth app from anywhere.

• What we like: innovative design, small size
• What we don't like: vibration strength might not be intense enough for some users without hand pressure
• Material: medical grade silicone
• Battery life: one hour on high speed

The Eva II is perfect for clitoral arousal during sex. It also features a hands-free design (the two wings can be tucked under the labia to stay in place), so you two can use those hands for...other stuff. Or, if you prefer, your partner can keep it still using only one finger. Plus it's waterproof. Note: You can peep this little guy's sale price by signing in toAmazon Prime.

• What we like: clitoris, g-spot and p-spot stimulation, customizable shapes
• What we don't like: 16 intensity settings might be overwhelming to first-time sex toy users
• Material: silicone
• Battery life: 60 minutes

This bendable vibrator lets you indulge in a combination of old school creativity (you and your partner can bend it to whatever shape you want) and new tech gadgetry (there are six motors down the length of it controlled by an app with pre-set motions or your own sequencing). Clitoral, G-spot and perineum stimulation are all part of its tricks (of which there are so many, the makers came out witha deck of cardsso you can collect all the sensations).

• What we like: large sized, generously padded
• What we don't like: non-elastic fastening requires exact fitting
• Material: leather
• Battery life: no batteries

Blindfolds are great for building tension and teasing your partner. This lightly padded one is a better option than the many flimsy versions on the market, and it has a buckle that keeps it in position far better than the satiny, slippery ribbons on other masks. "This blindfold does not move one bit. It keeps out all the light, feels comfortable on the wearer, is adjustable, made sturdy," writes one satisfied customer.

• What we like: 15-inch length is easy to wield
• What we don't like: faux leather is less durable than leather
• Material: faux leather
• Battery life: no batteries

This silver metallic faux leather whip is on the cuter end of the BDSM accessories spectrum but still will sting when playfully wielded. Take turns using it on each other for a buildup and pleasurable tingling experience. And at $29, consider this your 'Intro to Kink' accessory without having to invest in spendy leather goods.

• What we like: wearable during intercourse, lightweight
• What we don't like: can slip during intercourse
• Material: body-safe silicone and ABS plastic
• Battery life: two hours

This Lelo vibrator comes with a serious price tag—but it’s worth it, we promise. "Very stylish thing to use and extremely fun to play with," reports one reviewer about this toy that's made to be inserted. During intercourse, it will vibe for you both, while giving her a little extra clitoral stimulation. Oh, and while it is remote controlled, it is possible to change the settings without it.

• What we like: alternate ways of wearing it on the hand, travel lock guards against accidental suitcase triggering
• What we don't like: might be too subtle for some users
• Material: medical-grade silicone
• Battery life: 90 minutes on strong setting

Each partner can take turns slipping this blue toy on their fingers and using it, well, wherever they’d like. This small-but-mighty vibrator can be used on three speed settings during both foreplay and sex. And, BTW, it’s definitely discrete enough to travel with.

• What we like: use more than 14 ways, 10 vibration patterns
• What we don't like:large size (11.97 x 6.06 x 1.77 inches)
• Material: body-safe silicone
• Battery life: up to 30 minutes

See those two tiny buttons? They operate two separate motors (one upper and one lower), delivering the exact vibe you want, exactly where you want it. This Satisfyer tool can be worn 14 different ways, for women, menandcouples.

• What we like: chrome plated steel balls, strengthens pelvic floor
• What we don't like: may be too heavy for new ben wa ball users
• Material: chrome, steel, silicone retrieval cord
• Battery life: no batteries

AsFifty Shades of Greyauthor E.L. James writes: "I flush from the constant movement of the silver balls. They weigh down inside me, massaging me internally and make me needy, needy for sex." Each of these weighs just under 4 ounces, and one reviewer reports, "I think these are some of the heavier balls available, which is more of a challenge and more sensational for the wearer." It's the secret that it's inside that will help increase the sexy tension between you and your partner until they're taken out.

• What we like: delightful gift boxing, travel pouch included
• What we don't like: buttons might be hard to spot in the dark
• Material: body-safe silicone
• Warranty:One year

This vibrator comes from luxury French lingerie designer Kiki De Montparnasse, and it's got an upscale feel to it—from its small size (only 5-inches by 1.5-inches) to maximum features: It has eight intensity levels and an air-puffing function for clitoral stimulation for couples or individuals. "Chic, discreet and very effective," writes one user, who adds that it comes with a little silk bag for discretion.

• What we like: neutral colorway, surprisingly handy for new positions
• What we don't like: foam seems heavy
• Material: polyurethane foam
• Battery life: no battery

By day, it's a mild-mannered wedge-shaped pillow among the collection on your bed. By night, it becomes a soft-yet-firm wedge that supports you in all sorts of positions. Fifteen inches wide and 18 inches deep, this pillow comes with a removable, washable cover. "Has transformed my sex life," one reviewer reports. "This not only allows for the woman to be supported and in the perfect positions, but it takes pressure off the man during oral sex especially. Highly recommended!"

• What we like: unique wearable male design, vibrates during insertion
• What we don't like: settings on device are harder to manipulate than on the app
• Material: silicone
• Battery life: two hours

A unique design that is all about adding sensation for all parties involved, Tenuto is designed to stretch and adapt around the penis and perineum for increased blood flow, extended erection and long-lasting pleasure. You pull the sides of it apart to fit around a penis, and it vibrates before and during penetration, so scrotum, labia, shaft—it's all getting stimulated.

• What we like: quilted vegan leather, wide surface
• What we don't like: blindfold is a bit skimply
• Material: vegan leather
• Battery life: no batteries

Lightly padded diamond-stitched vegan leather in basic black complements the classic design of this paddle. At 13 inches long and 2.5-inches wide, it's not super-big and scary, and lightweight enough to wield for what its makers suggest: "Use it for gentle correction, caressing skin or serious spanking fantasies." The matching ankle and wrist cuffs plus blindfold round out the set.

• What we like: changes color as you use it, intuitive design
• What we don't like: can detach with vigorous movement
• Material: silicone
• Battery life: no batteries

These devices suction the nipples for enhanced sensitivity and arousal. The suction is gently and delightfully stimulating for even more pleasure in the bedroom, and this toy gives you a fun reason to leave the lights on—the silicone material changes color as body temperature rises.

• What we like: clasps penis during solo play, oral sex or during penetration
• What we don't like: might be unwieldy at 7.1 inches for some users
• Material: silicone, ABS plastic
• Battery life: 40 to 120 minutes

"I bought this after a session where my wife used her vibrator on my penis and found that I could orgasm from the sensation," writes one reviewer. "It makes sense if you just think of the penis being a big clitoris...a big source of pleasure." This device has two silicone wings that wrap around a man's penis, with ridges along the inside of the wings to hold lubricant in place for added sensation. Added bonus: It's suitable for solo and couples' play.

• What we like: flexible tongue mechanism, vibration and licking modes
• What we don't like: magnet charger falls off charging port
• Material: silicone
• Battery life: one hour

This little palm-sized device is meant to give women a new experience of oral sex, with the center of its rose petals designed to move like a tongue in the user's choice of nine speeds. Robot cunnilingus, anyone? Bonus: If your partner holds this against your naughty bits, they'll be able to enjoy your pleasure eye-to-eye at the same time as they're giving you (simulated) oral sex.

• What we like: strong vibration, giftable packaging
• What we don't like: no insertable parts
• Material: ABS plastic
• Battery life: up to one hour

On your nightstand, it looks like a cute golden diamond-shaped decorative object. But turn it on and cycle it through seven vibration patterns and three intensities, and it's mind-blowing as well as decorative. The 3-inch diameter device nestles in your palm and both the flat edge and tip can be used for stimulating both partners.

• What we like: small length isn't intimidating, 20 functions
• What we don't like: 3.25-inch circumference might be too petite for p-spot stimulation
• Material: silicone
• Battery life: 80 minutes

A novice user comments: "My partner and I wanted to try something new and thought we would give anal toys a go. This toy isn’t intimidating and really comfortable. Loads of settings to play with and really easy to use." It's three inches long and has three speeds and 17 patterns of vibration, and bonus, it's completely waterproof.

• What we like: light rose scent, penetrating relaxation
• What we don't like: might make some sensitive types too sleepy for intimacy
• Material: salt with added CBD oil
• Battery life: no batteries

添加一勺药用e bath salts to your tub to heighten sensations and get you ready for action. Foria sells three beautiful bath salts—Relief Salts, Wellness Salts and Intimacy Salts. Our reviewer tried all three separately, and while they're all luxurious and gorgeous smelling, she says theIntimacy Bath Salts really take the cake. "Upon leaving the bath, my skin was super soft, I smelled great (thanks to ingredients like rose, kava, cacao, hemp and Himalayan salt) and I was honestly ready to get down in the sheets. Amazing."

• What we like: powerful vibration
• What we don't like: bulky
• Material: Body-Safe Silicone and ABS plastic
• Battery life: up to 3 hours

Remember that episode ofSex and City当萨曼塔的“脖子”按摩器死在最坏的情况possible moment? Well, we took two lessons from that: Massagers can be actual sex toys, and cordless and rechargeable ones are an absolute must. This one is ideal for couples experiencing sex toys for the first time. It's effortless to use: All you or your partner needs to do is use it on your erogenous zones. And it has a flexible neck and 20 vibration patterns to match your comfort level.