After a few long months (fine, a year), you’re finally,finallyfeeling over your ex. Naturally, this is the exact same moment when your ex texts you to “see how you’re doing.” Ugh.
当你看到自己的名字出现在你的小石子n, along with a message that starts with a breezy “Hey, stranger,” you know the deal: They’re lonely, reminiscing and looking for a hookup. Or maybe they just want to be friends? Or wait, maybe they’re actually genuinely sorry for how things ended? You have no idea how to respond—if at all—to this stomach flip of a text. So we reached out to Channa Bromley, a relationship expert withRelationship Hero, and Maria Sullivan, the vice president ofDating.com, for some advice.