30 Valentine’s Day Date Ideas That Aren’t Totally Cheesy

Choose a sample-size food you both love (tacos! dumplings!) and map out all the best local spots to try 'em. Announce a winner at the end.

2. BREW YOUR OWN BEER

You could go to a brewery for date night like everyone else, or you could buy a kit and turn your own kitchen into an impromptu brewery, obviously naming your concoction after your favorite inside joke.

PSA: Many museums have night tickets available—and some even have special events planned for Valentine’s Day. How about one of thesemuseums in Chicagothat never charge admission or one of these underratedNYC museumsthat deserve your attention?

4. GO ROCK CLIMBING

Sure, spelunking doesn’t sound super sexy, but this interactive and challenging workout just might take your love to new heights. (Sorry, we had to.)

For all you sports novices, hockey and basketball are currently in season. Scoop up some cheap tickets and boo the rival team over cheap drafts. Don’t have a professional team in your area? Check to see if a nearby college has a home game on its schedule, which can be just as fun—especially if nachos are involved.

6. Sign Up for a Subscription Box

Don’t feel like leaving the house?DateBox Clubdelivers a unique themed date-night activity straight to your door so you actually spend quality time together instead of just watching another episode ofSuccession. Expect crafts that require teamwork or intimacy-building exercises like a journal of questions to ask each other and write down the answers. Sign up for one box to open in February or make date night a recurring thing (because, hello, it should be) by choosing a monthly subscription.

Now we’re talkin’: Peel outta work early and meet each other for a couples massage, facial or sauna hangout session. Here are our favoriteluxe spas in NYC, the topspas in Chicagoby neighborhood and the absolutebest facials in L.A.Or put one of these unbelievablehotel spason your travel bucket list for next Valentine’s Day.Steamy.

8. HOLD A DIY WINE TASTING

Step 1: Purchase酒假人. Step 2: Hold private at-home wine tasting. Step 3: Taste so many wines that you totally forget all the vital intel you just learned about tannins.Cheese boardnot necessary but highly recommended.

So what if it’s a little twee? Joint physical activity is always fun—and so is the après.(Hot cocoa with bourbon, darling?)

10. VOLUNTEER TOGETHER

Ladle out some much-needed nourishment at the soup kitchen, read books to adorable kiddos or head to your local animal shelter. By doing something good for the world together, you'll feel like even more of a team.

Investigate the V-Day lineups at your local venues. Another idea? Check outSofar Sounds, a website that curates intimate gigs and concerts around the world.

12. GO SNOWSHOEING

Drive to your nearest ski town and step out together into the snowy tundra. We love snowshoeing for its leisurely sightseeing, low rental cost and, most important, low skill level (read: risk of injury and/or utter humiliation).

OK, so this might not be the best option in February if you live in Maine—but fair climates are fair game for an outdoorsy overnight adventure. Pitch a tent and cozy up together under the stars. See if one of thesebest campsites in the U.S.is available or set up anat-home camp-outin your backyard.

Too high maintenance for the woods? Book a sleepover at a nearby hotel instead. Fluffy bathrobes and room service? Hubba-hubba.

Love your pals as much as your partner? Make a party of this Valentine's Day and invite all your nearest and dearest over for dinner. (No heart paraphernalia allowed.) Whip up one of thesepotluck dinner recipesthat are easy enough to make after work. And don’t forget aboutdessert!

16. TAKE A WORKOUT CLASS TOGETHER

Get your endorphins flowing byexercising together. Better your balance with a double downward dog or sign up for a pumped-up boxing class. Complete your class by hitting the sauna together or getting a couples massage to wind down. If you’re overwhelmed by the amount of fitness studios in your city, check out thesehigh-techgyms in San Francisco, half-hourfitness classes in L.A.or our favoriteNYC workoutsof all time.

Hitting the town? Hah. Not this couple—we’ll be holed up in bed watchingLove Islandand eating pizza straight from the box. Oh, and wrapped in aweighted blankettoo. (Romance knows many forms, folks.)

18. Bring Your Puppy to the Bar

You love your partner. But you love your dog too. So why not head to one of thebest dog-friendly barsin the country so you won’t have to leave Buddy behind? Grab a beer and say cheers to the two loves of your life.

Embrace the season’s solitude by taking an overnight trip to a cabin in the woods (LYMI,Airbnb). Unplug, cuddle up, breathe in the pine-scented air and listen to the sweet sounds of silence. Thesecozy cabin rentalsare a surefire way to have a memorable (and super romantic) weekend away.

20. Host a Game Night

Tell your friends that studies show whencouples play board games together, their bodies release oxytocin (aka the “love hormone”). Then invite them over for a night playing What Do You Meme, Codenames or any of theseparty games for adults. Nosh onbite-sizeappetizersand keep the beer and wine flowing, of course.

Dim lights and candles? A yoga studio just might be the romantic ambience you were looking for this Valentine’s Day. Not only is taking a class together a relatively inexpensive date idea, but thehealth benefitsthat come along with it, like feeling happier and less stressed, will make the rest of the day more enjoyable.

22. HAVE A PIZZA-MAKING CONTEST

Whether the two of you whip up homemade pasta every Sunday or insist on ordering takeout, switch things up by having a pizza-making contest. This allows for friendly competition as well as an opportunity to spend quality time together in a different capacity. Arm yourselves with all the necessary ingredients (the more toppings the better) and determine whose is the most professional looking—i.e., the roundest. Winner gets to choose the next show to binge. Get your culinary inspiration flowing by checking out thesepizza recipes, and no, we don’t consider this cheating, but maybe don’t tell your spouse you read it.

Break out of your comfort zone with a tarot card reading from your local fortune teller. Whether you get in-depth answers about your relationship or find out the "psychic" is a total scam artist, at least you’ll have something to talk about over dinner afterward. Kudos if you surprise your star-chart-loving sweetie with one of thesezodiac-related giftsat the restaurant.

24. Try an Escape Room

Work as a team to find clues and solve riddles to break out of a locked room in less than 60 minutes. Find an escape room in your area with a quick Google search or check out theDownton AbbeyandStranger Thingsthemed rooms if they’re close by. (Just don’t blame us if you discover you need to work on your problem-solving skills together.)

So what if your only experience with pottery is watching the famous Demi Moore and Patrick Swayze scene fromGhost?Even beginners will leave an adult ceramics class with a handcrafted keepsake, and we can’t help but think the experience will lead to something sexy.

26. Go on a Local Tour

Is there a factory, distillery or park in your town that you love? Research to see if tours are available (Cape Cod Potato Chipchips factory orStarbucks Reserve, anyone?). Hopefully free samples are involved.

Put those hours spent watching HGTV together to good use and turn your kitchen island into a DIY craft station. If you’re feeling sentimental, decorate a wood picture frame to hold your favorite photo of each other or put together a scrapbook of the past year. Too cheesy? How about creating a piece ofmoss wall artor following a YouTubecalligraphy tutorial? Who knows, maybe you and bae are the next Chip and Joanna Gaines.

28. Test-Drive Cars

Dress up in your weekend-chic best and “go shopping” for the new car you so desperately need. (Silk head scarf not optional.) Here’s to hoping your Valentine’s Day date will end with a purchase ofone of these luxury vehicles.

你的祖父母有那么多的故事cross-country trips by train. Turns out, they were on to something. Instead of automatically hopping on a plane for a celebratory vacation, consider making the journey part of your adventure. Many trains even offer luxury and first-class accommodations.

30. Go to A Comedy Show

Admit it: Your honey has the best laugh in the entire world.