Kim Anami wants you to have mind-blowing sex. The self-describedholistic sex and relationship coachcreates podcasts devoted to orgasmic enlightenment, leads small groups of students in focusing on the finer points of g spots and mutual orgasms and practices something called阴道功夫. So when the sexpert told us that a handful of easy-to-practice habits could change our sex life for the way better, we were all ears (and, apparently, under-exercised labia). If you want to really get into it, Amani has a host of "sex savant salons" i.e. online classes, coming up, but here's some right-here, right-now upgrades to your erotic experience you can implement, pronto.